The Why Me? paradox

As humans we are prone to change inspite of our attempts to resist change. In the course of time we face rejections, challanges amd situations that have us asking why me?

But the why me thinkers always end up drown in their own thoughts rather than finding appropriate answers. And how is that I say it with so much confidence you may ask.

This is because I have been there. I have been down the rabbit hole of self pity and isolation. I have cursed my situations and envied the seemingly better off. But while in the rabbit hole I was only moving deeper. Not once do I remember making efforts to the contrary.

I wallowed in self pity amd dispised the luck of the lucky. But I never tried to come out of it. I said to myself it is of no use. I am cursed and I will take it to my grave.

All my readers on this page in life.. wake up amd see There is so much to life than just the present situation.  Yes today may be a challenge but that doesn’t meant tomorrow will be the same. Look around look at your life. Have you not been a fighter? Have you not overcome seemingly impossible tasks? Then Why stop now? Why the self pity and why me attitude?

Wake up and take action. Steer your own ship towards the shore. Take the efforts go the extra mile move in the right direction and you would never realise how far you have arrived.

Persist and persevere and never again be a victim of why me situation

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